I went to public school when I was growing up (not including my three-year stint at Catholic school), and while I really valued the education I received, I would have loved to have had some more freedom to explore my passions. About seven years ago, as we began the kindergarten search process in New York City, I fell in love with the idea of experiential, interest-based learning. And while the private schools that we toured and applied to were excellent, I knew that a full day of school plus commute time on the subway would be too much for my daughter. My thoughts were underscored when I was talking to her about the length of a school day before one interview, and she asked, “but when will I have time to play?” So that was that. 

Seven years later, here we are. I am a single parent who has worked by doing things that I loved (as a writer, teacher, and bartender) along the way in order to provide for my daughter. Admittedly, it can be a little tricky to manage sometimes, but when we get into the right groove, being able to balance work and homeschooling is a beautiful thing! 

There are about a million different ways to homeschool, and countless working parent scenarios, but there should be something for everyone here. And if not, well, as any homeschooler will tell you: find what works for you in the moment, and if it’s just not working, you can always adjust! 

Happy learning! 

-Emilie

Before you begin
  • Ensure that all paperwork required by the city, county, or state has been filed
  • Be open to adjusting. If one aspect doesn’t work…schedule, curriculum, etc, you can always adjust
  • Spend a period of time deschooling before you jump into your school year. This will help parents and children unwind and welcome in a new way of learning. 
  • Get organized: join online homeschooling forums, email lists, and in person homeschool groups. Familiarize yourself with the necessary curriculum. Set specific goals for yourself and for your child(ren). If possible, create a homeschooling space or study area. 
Have a set time and place to work
  • If you work outside the home, and have a set schedule this isn’t really an issue
  • If you work from home or if you have flexible work hours, ensure that you have a place in your home (office, living room, bedroom, pretty much wherever your children permit) or outside of your home (coffee shop, co-working space, library, etc) where you can get the work done. Stay consistent. If necessary, adjust your working hours for while they are asleep: early morning, late evening, or quiet time. You can even work while they do their assignments or log in to a class (especially if they are older or more independent).
  • Some parents prefer to work a certain number of days, and then do schoolwork on other days. For instance, they might work three days a week, and then work on schoolwork with their children four days a week. 
Create a routine for child(ren)
  • Certain subjects at certain times and days
  • Take breaks
  • Activities outside of the home…swim, theatre, piano, soccer, library, etc
A support system is vital
  • You’re a wonderful parent, excellent teacher, and a great employee…but you can’t do everything. Share parenting responsibilities. Hire a babysitter.
  • If you have an older child who can help out with schoolwork or childcare, rely on them, pay them for their labor, if you can. Grandparents and extended family are a wonderful resource.
  • Cultivate relationships with other homeschool families (trade childcare responsibilities, arrange for rides, hire a tutor together).
Emulating school is not necessary
  • One of the great things about homeschooling is that you have a lot of freedom. You can school from 8-3 if that works for you and your child(ren), but you can also do schoolwork from midday-on, or in the evenings, or only do schoolwork on particular days. 
  • You also don’t need to follow one curriculum. Use multiple resources: books, websites, museums, travel. 
  • Some families prefer nature-based homeschooling. Incorporate an educational philosophy that works for you: Waldorf, Montessori, etc. Literature-based and nature-based are very popular, as well. 
  • Learning is everywhere! If they are working on video editing, playing an instrument, playing a sport, reading voraciously, baking, cooking, running a business, acting…they’re learning. 
  • Don’t overthink it
  • It’s ok to adjust! 
Ask for help with academics
  • You’re not an expert in all fields, and that’s totally ok. 
  • Reach out to your networks..do you have a friend who can tutor your child? A family member? Is there a math teacher you know who wouldn’t mind a few extra dollars? 
  • Use reputable, accredited online classes 
  • Classes can be found through parks and rec departments, local theatres, museums, cultural organizations, and libraries. If it doesn’t exist: ASK. A lot of cultural organizations and museums have classroom space and experts at their disposal. Many of them would be delighted to fill those spaces,  share their expertise, and create a class or workshop for you. 
Ask for help with academics

Give yourself a break

  • It’s ok to take a nap, zone out, scroll, garden, or whatever you need to do to rest. 
  • If your child is frustrated or tired, let them take a break, too. 
  • Take a few days off if necessary…get into nature, go on a quick trip, donate your time to a local organization, have a family movie marathon…whatever you need to do to decompress and re-energize. 
Helpful Resources: 
  • Facebook groups for homeschoolers abound and they will help you immensely. There are specialized groups for gifted learners, regional groups, neurodiverse groups, etc. Secular, Eclectic, and Academic (SEA) Homeschoolers is a wonderful starting place. 
  • Reading lists. I love to read, and have found many books for my children to read for fun and to supplement their learning through the New York Public Library website, and A Mighty Girl. We Need Diverse Books is a great website that also has an app to help guide you in choosing the right books for your children. I also enjoy looking at the reading lists of elite private schools throughout the U.S. to get an idea of how to challenge and entertain my daughter. 
  • Online classes, supplemental classes, and tutors can add up! Your local library, YMCA, JCC, and parks departments all offer free or low-cost learning experiences and extracurricular activities for your children. 

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